Who to choose

Here are suggestions for choosing an agent:

• You can name a family member, close friend, minister, priest, or rabbi.

• You should name one person as your agent. Then name one or two alternates. You need a backup person in case your first choice can’t be reached when needed.

• Talk with each person you're thinking of naming as your agent or alternate. Do this before you decide who should carry out your wishes.

Your agent should be ...

• A competent adult, age 18 or older

• Someone you trust and can talk to about the care you want and what's important to you

• Someone who supports your treatment choices

In many states, your agent can’t be ...

• Your healthcare provider

• An employee of your provider or of a hospital, nursing home, or hospice program where you receive care

Some states have other restrictions on who can be named as an agent for an advance directive.

Be prepared

Tip: It's a good idea to write down your wishes and give a copy to your agent and all others who are involved with your healthcare.